Melody Pand

Hello, welcome back to your favourite blog.
Today, I want to talk about something that I have observed and done severally. When trying to justify my actions, I tend to look at only my side of the view. I selfishly ignore to consider the other parties involved.

We often complain that our men are cheating and are chatting with other women or their ex~lovers. Likewise, men complain that their women are chatting with other men or have ‘inappropriate’ friendships with their exes.
But, when we are aggrieved over this, often we overlook what we are doing. If as a man you are not happy with your woman chatting to other men, have you thought of how the other man is feeling when you are chatting to his woman? Same with women. Until we become honest in our thinking and doing then, no one should complain. If two people in a relationship or marriage decide to entertain other people, then just do it amicably. You are birds of the same feather.

It should only become an issue when you are an honest person yourself.
People should learn to respect the rules of engagement. If you agree on a monogamous relationship, let it be that and not force each other into accepting otherwise.
Lots of men are being decieved by their wives and girlfriends, who are busy entertaining other men. Guess what, they are dealing with “other” men. So, in.simple terms men are suffering because of other men chatting to their women and the reverse is true.

The bible says, Matthew 7:3 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
The bible further says, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. This is a biblical concept spoken by Jesus in Luke 6:31.
So my friends, until next blog, do right and be at peace.

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